Skin-to-skin contact guide

Article By
Rob
Published On
29 Sep, 2025
Read Time
4 minutes
  • Skin-to-skin contact is often encouraged right after birth, but it’s just as valuable in the days, weeks, and months that follow. 
  • Your familiar heartbeat, warmth, and scent help your baby feel safe. 
  • It also boosts oxytocin (the “love hormone”), helping you feel more connected. 
  • And it’s not only for birthing parents, partners can benefit too. 
  • Simple tip: wear a button-down shirt, use a blanket for warmth, and enjoy quiet moments in your day. 

That very first snuggle after birth is one of life’s most magical moments. Your baby, resting against your bare chest, feels the warmth of your skin, the rhythm of your heartbeat, and the comfort of your scent. 

This closeness, known as skin-to-skin contact, is often encouraged in the delivery room, but its benefits go far beyond those first precious minutes. Whether in the hours, days, or weeks that follow, skin-to-skin continues to support your baby’s well-being and strengthens your bond in simple yet powerful ways. 

Keep reading to learn how... 

Skin-to-skin contact: What is it? 

Skin-to-skin is when your baby is placed directly onto your bare chest, usually wearing only a diaper and sometimes a hat, while a blanket or gown is placed over both of you for warmth. It’s common right after birth, but you can also enjoy it anytime in the weeks and months ahead. 

The practice can help babies feel calm and secure, while giving parents confidence and reassurance in the early days of caring for their newborn. 

Top skin-to-skin tips

  1. Wear a button-down shirt
  2. Keep a soft blanket handy
  3. Choose calm, comfy moments in your day

Top tip

Even older babies and toddlers can enjoy warm, close snuggles, skin-to-skin grows with your child.

Benefits for your baby beyond the first hour 

Encourages bonding and emotional security 

Your baby recognizes your heartbeat, warmth, and familiar scent, all of which help them feel safe. This closeness lays the foundation for secure attachment, which is important for their long-term well-being. 

Supports breastfeeding 

When babies are kept skin-to-skin, they’re more likely to show natural feeding cues and latch well. It also helps stimulate breast milk supply, making breastfeeding or pumping easier and more comfortable. 

Aids development and regulation 

Skin-to-skin helps regulate your baby’s body temperature, breathing, and heart rate. It reduces stress hormones, supports brain development, and may even improve sleep patterns. 

Benefits for you as a parent 

Strengthens emotional connection 

Holding your baby close triggers the release of oxytocin, aka the “love hormone.” This not only deepens your bond but also supports your own well-being by lowering stress and reducing the risk of postpartum mood challenges. 

Builds confidence in caring for your baby 

Skin-to-skin helps you tune into your baby’s cues more quickly, boosting your confidence as a new parent. It encourages calm, responsive caregiving, helping you feel more capable as you get to know your little one. 

Works for all caregivers 

Skin-to-skin isn’t just for moms. Partners and other caregivers can also enjoy its benefits. It gives them a chance to bond, comfort, and connect with baby in their own special way. 

How to make skin-to-skin part of everyday life

You don’t have to limit skin-to-skin to the hospital or those first days at home. Try it: 

  • During or after a breastfeeding or bottle-feeding session. 
  • To help calm your baby when they’re fussy. 
  • While winding down together before bedtime. 
  • On quiet afternoons, simply enjoying a cuddle. 

Skin-to-skin safety

  1. You and your baby need to be dry.
  2. Make sure that your baby’s neck is straight and head upright and to one side so they can breathe easily.
  3. Hold your baby securely with both hands taking care not to clasp too tightly.
  4. It’s best not to hold a phone or device until you are confident handling your baby.
  5. Extra care is needed if you are sleepy, drowsy, unwell.

The science of closeness 

Behind those cozy cuddles, there’s fascinating biology at work. Skin-to-skin lowers cortisol (a stress hormone) and increases oxytocin, which promotes bonding and relaxation for both of you. It helps balance your baby’s systems, from body temperature to breathing, while supporting long-term emotional and cognitive development. 

Skin-to-skin isn’t about getting it “perfect” or hitting a certain number of hour, it’s about making the most of those gentle, connected moments with your baby. Each cuddle against your chest helps your little one feel safe, supported, and loved, while giving you a boost of confidence and closeness too. 

So, whether it’s during a feed, a nap, or a calm moment after a busy day, skin-to-skin is a simple, natural way to nurture your relationship and support your baby’s development, long after that first post-birth hour has passed. 

How long should I do skin-to-skin for?

There’s no set rule. Even a few minutes can be beneficial, but longer stretches are great too. Many parents aim for at least an hour after birth, but beyond that, it’s about what feels right for you and your baby.

Yes. If immediate skin-to-skin isn’t possible during surgery, your baby can be placed on your chest soon after in recovery. Partners can also step in with skin-to-skin while you’re resting.

Skin-to-skin, often called “kangaroo care,” is especially valuable for premature or unwell babies. It helps stabilize their temperature, heart rate, and breathing, while giving parents a vital way to bond.

Not at all. All caregivers (including dads, partners, adoptive parents, and grandparents) can enjoy and benefit from skin-to-skin. It’s a bonding experience for anyone caring for the baby.

There’s no upper age limit. While it’s most common with newborns, older babies and even toddlers still benefit from close, warm cuddles on your chest.

No. You just need direct skin contact between your baby’s front and your bare chest. You can wear an open shirt or use a blanket over both of you for warmth and privacy.