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    About support networks for parents

    It really does take a village — and it doesn't always show up automatically. Here's how to find your people, ask for help, and build the community every new parent deserves.

    Author: Kate | Head of Product Development

    Posted on: 9 Feb, 2025

    Reading time: 2 mins

    Connecting with others is key during pregnancy and parenthood. 

    Our guide offers practical advice on building your support system, from family dynamics and seeking medical help to finding local services. 

    What is a support network?

    A good support network is essential for every new parent. It's the group of people you can count on for emotional support, practical help, and reliable information. This might include family, friends, your partner, other parents, health professionals, and local community services. They're there to listen, lend a hand, and offer advice as you navigate the joys and challenges of pregnancy and parenthood. All parents (expectant and new) will benefit from comprehensive support that addresses their emotional, mental, and practical needs. 

    • Practical support: Help with chores, childcare, and daily tasks can ease the load. 
    • Healthcare: Seeing your doctor regularly for checkups and support is vital for your health and your baby's. 
    • Community: Connecting with other parents through local groups or online forums can be invaluable. 
    • Emotional well-being: Having a supportive network for encouragement and a listening ear is essential. 

    Five tips for building a parenting support network 

    Parenthood is a journey best traveled with support. Here's how to build your village:  

    1. Know what you need: Think about the kind of emotional, mental, and practical support you'll need as a new or expecting parent. Knowing this makes it easier to ask for help.  
    2. Talk about it: Open and honest communication is key. Tell your partner, family, friends, doctor, and anyone else in your support network what you need. It builds trust and strong relationships. 
    3. Get your loved ones involved: Let your partner, friends, and family know how they can best support you during pregnancy and after the baby arrives.  
    4. Connect with other parents: Share experiences and get different perspectives by chatting with other moms and dads at local parent groups, online forums, or in your local community.  
    5. Get professional help if you need it: Don't hesitate to use resources like parenting classes, mental health services, and other community programs. They can provide extra support and connect you with experts. 

    Why do parents need a support network?

    Pregnancy and new parenthood can be tough. That's why having a strong support network is so important. It's good for you and your baby.

    Support helps parents navigate the emotional ups and downs, reduces stress, and gives them practical help. When parents feel supported, they're better able to bond with their babies and provide the loving care that's so important for healthy development.

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